I wont be on for awhile

[ThunderDawg09]

Hey everyone

I wont be on for awhile. My girlfriend and I went through a bad break up and I need time to think. I know it was the right think to break it off. But I need to take time to myself and pray. So I wont be online mush for awhile I will come back. When I do I may get a new name so if my now ex gf looks for me she wont notice me lol. But I will let yall know its me.



God Bless

Mike

[bradrhale]

the powers at be dont do the user name change that much so be prepared to be stuck with the name. sorry to hear bubba. if you need anything, let me know.

[ThunderDawg09]

ok thanks. Ill keep my name then lol

[bradrhale]

not a problem. i have a yahoo account with the same name also if you need to vent. seems to be alot of that around here nowadays.

[FaselZ71]

Well I'm sorry to hear about you and you gf. But I'll be here when you get back see you when you return!

[peterbilt]

been there b4, know how it feels, and we'll always be here for ya brother, once a truckforum member, always a truckforum member.

[gmctrucks]

Good luck I hope things get better and don't do something stupid like in taking your own life theirs a lot of fish in the ocean she's not the only one remember GOD has a plan for all of us please don't be offended by me saying that it's just that like two other people on this other forum have gone it in the last few weeks.
Be good! GMC
PS-I'm one that has vented here lately sometimes one just has to do it but that's why you have friends here to help you out and listen some members here have helped me more than they think and thats what it's all about helping each other.

[FaselZ71]

Well Bulldawg if you do need someone to talk to we are hear and I'm glad to hear that you'll be talking to god! With all the venting going on around and I've begun to realize that I haven't spoken to god in quite sometime! I feel kinda guilt now! Gmc I'm glad that your able to find the comfort that you need on here it's always satisfing to know that there are people in this world that have never met you but still care about your well being! It just goes to show that there are still decent people on this planet!!!

[ThunderDawg09]

Thanks for all the support guys. I was not going to be on for awhile but when I saw how much support I have here I decided to post. I am NOT even close to thinking of taking my own life. I am not really depressed about the whole thing. I have been doing a lot of praying (I am a very devout Catholic my faith is number 1 in my life).

Technically we are "taking a break" but I think its heading towards breaking up. Or just starting over and taking it slow. We rushed into it which was a bad idea.

I was going to take it slow at first but she is such a sweet (and pretty) girl that I rushed in since she was not going slow. But we both realized that we were going so fast that we had not taken the time to build a solid foundation for our relationship.

We already were talking about marriage and all. But we both know that we each have 4 years of college ahead before we can think about that.

I have also been thinking and praying a lot about college and what career I want. growing up I wanted to work on cars for a living. But I had a lot of friends around me pushing me saying that I need to go to a 4 year school and get a business degree or something and do cars on the side. That I will survive better with that.

So I thought about getting a business management degree. But after looking at the size of the schools and the field I think I may go back and do Automotive because cars and trucks are my passion.

I know that I probably wont make as much money and I know that it may wear my body out doing it. But I don't think I could live with myself if I didn't go with my passion.

I even have a solid plan on what education path and all with automotive. I will get a 2 year Automotive Technology degree and a 2 year Automotive collision degree. And become ASE certified.

And my uncle said if I go to school up where he lives (my hometown). That I can work on cars at the used car lot he works at while I am in school. So I would go there since I would have a job that would work around my school no problem.

One thing about me taking Automotive. Since its my passion I will put a ton more effort into it then I would if I took anything else. Anyway sorry to ramble on and on. talk to yall later

God Bless

Mike

[FaselZ71]

No please ramble on and I agree do what your passionate about I started welding and then quit welding to do irrigation because it paid better but after awhile I realized where my love lay and now I'm welding agian even though I took almost a $2.00 per hour pay cut I'm happy!! And that's what it's about! I know how you feel in the relationship my and my wife have been struggling for some time now! We met and 6 mos later she was pregnant and 5 months later we got married and we took a break although it was my fault for the breakup we still had not intentions of getting back together until I found out someone else was raising my daughter and that caused me to find more faith and get the help I needed and now we back together and happier then we've ever been!! Things worked out for me maybe they will with you!! As I said earlier I know realize how long it's been since I've spoke with god and I plan on catching back up with him! You'll be in my prayers tonight and I'll be here to talk as for anyone else if you need to talk send me a pm I'm here to listen! I want to be everyones friend I'm trying to make myself a better person one day one friend at a time!!! Good luck man talk to you soon!!