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ErwinRommel · 03-01-2009, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by 72'CaminoKid

she tells me shes not but i've got suspicions..... but she ccant get mad at me, it was her decision, not mine. and i'm vaguely familiar with ware county area. pretty much oposite side of state as me.

Well just move on bud. It happens. I know yall had yalls good times and bad times. Just keep cool man. Life's too short to worry about things that will fall in place in time. I've learned that. What happens happens. Just don't lose hope though.

Yea. Just the swampy area of Georgia...ahh...moonshine stills....wildfires...girls....beach.....mud holes....rivers.......just to name the few.

Dude just keep on dating. If she really likes you, she will come back.

bradrhale · 03-02-2009, 10:55 AM

i agree with CG. theres plenty of wild women out there. the snowstorm idea is great too. since texas is not known for snow (east tx), we rescue stuck in mud girls. they are always willing to give up all kinds of stuff when they are out there in the middle of nowhere. few beers and fishing poles............ man, life is good.

72'CaminoKid · 03-02-2009, 02:19 PM

welcome back chevy guy. and we've got the rivers and mud here too, just not too many swamps, a few though. and definately got the stills, coon huntin 2 years back we came across the largest still in the tri county area

chevyguy · 03-03-2009, 05:28 PM

Oh Camino I see you have a new mistress.... Nice I like the Shadow series. I have done quite a bot of work on one lately, its my neighbors I did a redneck hardtail and he wanted ape hangers on it.

72'CaminoKid · 03-04-2009, 02:54 PM

egh, i def dont want ape hangers, but to each his own. i bought it because it was cheap and hondas are dependable. i needed somethin cheap bc well, i'm a poor college kid, and its only a 750 so i can get used to riding and all, its a little different than a dirt bike. but probably next summer or the one after i'll upgrade to a victory or yamahaa

lukasmcdukas · 03-04-2009, 03:39 PM

bummer about the girl man, but don't let it get you down. keeping with chevyguy's fish theme: there are plenty of fish in the sea, and you don't always get to keep what you catch. maybe its time for a little catch and release. just dont wear out your rod, and before you know it you'll snag a real keeper

then you can mount it, stuff it, and maybe it'll even make you eggs in the morning.

72'CaminoKid · 03-04-2009, 06:52 PM

i know yall are trying to help and all, but ****, its alot easier said than done. i mena the last 3 years of my life, up and gone. and shes out acting like she aint gotta problem in the world, while i'm in the dumps. that hurts just as bad if not worse than her leaving in the first place. and now she's gotta have surgery next week and i want so bad to be there for her. i mean, any time you see someone you care about in a position where they need help, you want to be there to give a hand. and she wont even let me in. its tearing me apart on the inside

bradrhale · 03-05-2009, 05:45 AM

if it were me, i would go for her surgery. just because she kicked you to the curb like a bad habit doesnt mean that yall stopped caring for each other. if you needed surgery, i bet that she would want to know. who knows, something like that might bring yall back together.

lukasmcdukas · 03-05-2009, 09:05 AM

i was in a similar situation to what you described. i, like you, wanted to help my ex with some problems she was having. so i did. we split up after she graduated college (i still had a semester left) and 2 weeks before I was going to ask her to marry me. a year after she left me, i met her in chicago and helped her through everything even though she had a new boyfriend that should have been there and wasnt... whatever. put all kinds of time and energy into helping her out, just because i still cared about her and wanted her to be happy. and at the end? she undid everything i helped her with and went back to the other bum without so much as a thank you or even a handshake, and stopped talking to me (again) altogether. i hadnt heard a peep from her til 2 days ago (its been 8months since she last said anything to me). she sent me a text message to tell me she had decided to quit the job that she left me for 2 years ago, didn't have any other work lined up, but wouldnt be coming back to the east coast. just another twist to the knife i guess.
so i understand where you're coming from (she and I were together for almost 4 years before she split). do what you think you gotta do buddy, i hope you have better luck than i did. i wouldnt get my hopes up too high though.

ErwinRommel · 03-05-2009, 08:12 PM

Bro. Don't worry about this. Just move on and learn from this situation. Remember, she can be with you for 30 years and then she can leave you. Your not married or anything so no worrys or child support

. Just be glad your alive man. I hope the best for you. Keep the head up and the right girl will come along in the long run. The hurt feelings and things you had to go through is what teaches you to be a better man and stronger in mind and soul. Good luck man. I haven't had a girl in so long...nor even have I gotten my NUB wet! I ain't worrying about it. The right girl will come along for me sometime..I just do my best to live from day to day.

03-02-2009, 02:19 PM	#13
72'CaminoKid Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,757	welcome back chevy guy. and we've got the rivers and mud here too, just not too many swamps, a few though. and definately got the stills, coon huntin 2 years back we came across the largest still in the tri county area __________________ 99 suburban xlt 96 silverado 91 wrangler (my baby ) 08 Honday shadow 750 (my mistress)

03-03-2009, 05:28 PM	#14
chevyguy Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: ALABAMA Posts: 3,555	Oh Camino I see you have a new mistress.... Nice I like the Shadow series. I have done quite a bot of work on one lately, its my neighbors I did a redneck hardtail and he wanted ape hangers on it. __________________ Some people are like slinkies, Basically useless, But fun to watch when you push them down the stairs.

03-04-2009, 02:54 PM	#15
72'CaminoKid Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,757	egh, i def dont want ape hangers, but to each his own. i bought it because it was cheap and hondas are dependable. i needed somethin cheap bc well, i'm a poor college kid, and its only a 750 so i can get used to riding and all, its a little different than a dirt bike. but probably next summer or the one after i'll upgrade to a victory or yamahaa __________________ 99 suburban xlt 96 silverado 91 wrangler (my baby ) 08 Honday shadow 750 (my mistress)

03-04-2009, 03:39 PM	#16
lukasmcdukas Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Kittery, Maine Posts: 1,365	bummer about the girl man, but don't let it get you down. keeping with chevyguy's fish theme: there are plenty of fish in the sea, and you don't always get to keep what you catch. maybe its time for a little catch and release. just dont wear out your rod, and before you know it you'll snag a real keeper then you can mount it, stuff it, and maybe it'll even make you eggs in the morning. __________________ Lukas "don your headdress" McDukas 97 Nissan D21 Hardbody SE Kingcab (77,500k) 86 Yamaha Maxim X 750 4 cyl, 4 stroke (48k)

03-04-2009, 06:52 PM	#17
72'CaminoKid Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,757	i know yall are trying to help and all, but ****, its alot easier said than done. i mena the last 3 years of my life, up and gone. and shes out acting like she aint gotta problem in the world, while i'm in the dumps. that hurts just as bad if not worse than her leaving in the first place. and now she's gotta have surgery next week and i want so bad to be there for her. i mean, any time you see someone you care about in a position where they need help, you want to be there to give a hand. and she wont even let me in. its tearing me apart on the inside __________________ 99 suburban xlt 96 silverado 91 wrangler (my baby ) 08 Honday shadow 750 (my mistress)

03-02-2009, 10:55 AM	#12
bradrhale Senior Moderator Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 9,558	i agree with CG. theres plenty of wild women out there. the snowstorm idea is great too. since texas is not known for snow (east tx), we rescue stuck in mud girls. they are always willing to give up all kinds of stuff when they are out there in the middle of nowhere. few beers and fishing poles............ man, life is good.

03-05-2009, 05:45 AM	#18
bradrhale Senior Moderator Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 9,558	if it were me, i would go for her surgery. just because she kicked you to the curb like a bad habit doesnt mean that yall stopped caring for each other. if you needed surgery, i bet that she would want to know. who knows, something like that might bring yall back together.

03-05-2009, 09:05 AM	#19
lukasmcdukas Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Kittery, Maine Posts: 1,365	i was in a similar situation to what you described. i, like you, wanted to help my ex with some problems she was having. so i did. we split up after she graduated college (i still had a semester left) and 2 weeks before I was going to ask her to marry me. a year after she left me, i met her in chicago and helped her through everything even though she had a new boyfriend that should have been there and wasnt... whatever. put all kinds of time and energy into helping her out, just because i still cared about her and wanted her to be happy. and at the end? she undid everything i helped her with and went back to the other bum without so much as a thank you or even a handshake, and stopped talking to me (again) altogether. i hadnt heard a peep from her til 2 days ago (its been 8months since she last said anything to me). she sent me a text message to tell me she had decided to quit the job that she left me for 2 years ago, didn't have any other work lined up, but wouldnt be coming back to the east coast. just another twist to the knife i guess. so i understand where you're coming from (she and I were together for almost 4 years before she split). do what you think you gotta do buddy, i hope you have better luck than i did. i wouldnt get my hopes up too high though. __________________ Lukas "don your headdress" McDukas 97 Nissan D21 Hardbody SE Kingcab (77,500k) 86 Yamaha Maxim X 750 4 cyl, 4 stroke (48k)

03-05-2009, 08:12 PM	#20
ErwinRommel Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Southern Georgia Posts: 579	Bro. Don't worry about this. Just move on and learn from this situation. Remember, she can be with you for 30 years and then she can leave you. Your not married or anything so no worrys or child support . Just be glad your alive man. I hope the best for you. Keep the head up and the right girl will come along in the long run. The hurt feelings and things you had to go through is what teaches you to be a better man and stronger in mind and soul. Good luck man. I haven't had a girl in so long...nor even have I gotten my NUB wet! I ain't worrying about it. The right girl will come along for me sometime..I just do my best to live from day to day.

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